fgm878 said: I just wish I could understand her, hilariously (or not so) after she left she moved house and refused to tell anyone who lives here her new address because she was "scared I would go and attack her" (even though in those last months when she came I would hide or go out to avoid her) that included not getting her last pay check..

You can’t dwell like that, some people are bewildering, she’s obviously holding an unreasonable grudge, whether she realises or not that her reasons may not be valid she’s pursuing her grudge so maliciously you can’t allow yourself to become a part of it. Just continue to act with your Brother’s best interests at heart and try not to let her influence you, it’s clear to me (and I only know you on here) that you couldn’t have acted in the way she implies so your current/future carers must see that too. 

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about: smoking

r9il72e108m:

just realized that i’ve smoked 4 packs of menthol cigarettes in the past 6 days :o

i usually smoke occasionally/sparingly at this point, and don’t consider myself a regular smoker as i usually buy a pack and go through it/smoke them over the course of a week and a half or two…

Yeah I getcha. The herbal cigarettes are a better method for me as a way of reducing, you know, instead of e-cigs. I like the process, lighting, tapping, spilling ash and I can swap my cloves/menthols out for some and hardly notice the difference. These are the ones I just ordered to try: http://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/aw/d/B006GQFP16?pc_redir=1407774786&robot_redir=1

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No matter how much I tidy, clutter reigns.

No matter how much I tidy, clutter reigns.

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I can’t remember whether I mentioned my boyfriend? His name is Jed and due to my BPD it’s taken a year or so to get to this stage (9/4/12 I think) but we’re having a lot of fun being cute together now I have my own place.

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So, I’m back online. Hello Tumblr, enjoy these assorted images of my new flat in various states of disarray. The last picture wasn’t taken in my flat, that’s Flush, I bought them on Ebay and I’m still awaiting their arrival. You can see Dudley Castle from my window. I’ve not killed any of my plants yet. I’m doing pretty well I think, aside from my complete inability to commit to decorating the place, the hallway is filled with paint cans and cloths and now I’m worried the grey I’ve chosen for the living room is too dark and I won’t be able to get the right kind of light fittings for the bathroom so I can fill it with plants. Still, how is everybody? 

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I forgot to thank Lana (http://manacrystals.tumblr.com/) for her prompt postage and lovely store. This tote is my new favourite thing, were I rich I’d buy out https://www.etsy.com/shop/ZEPHIandtheDEVIL 

I forgot to thank Lana (http://manacrystals.tumblr.com/) for her prompt postage and lovely store. This tote is my new favourite thing, were I rich I’d buy out https://www.etsy.com/shop/ZEPHIandtheDEVIL 

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I think I look like a red-faced, big-nosed gypsy witch when I’m a brunette but my Mother loves it and it goes with my new green top hat and frock coat so I’m happy. “Back to the Gypsy that I was”. You can’t see but I also had the other side of my nose pierced but the guy didn’t tell me until after he did it that they only had gold studs, so anyway that makes ten piercings now. Time for a tattoo I think. 

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Aggie and Maggie 

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Gradually decorating my room, my Dad keeps bringing me little gifts, toay it was the Raven. 

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New hair. 

New hair. 

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